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I want more, impossible to ignore

Last weekend, I did something that felt quite unnatural to me. I exhibited considerable restraint during a book sale.

I’ve written about the Friends of Emmet O’Neal Book Sale each year since my first visit. The first year I was so overwhelmed by the number of books I bought, I told everyone about it. The second year, I bought even more books and became a Friend myself.

As shelving began for this year’s book sale, I prepared to move from my one bedroom garage apartment to a three bedroom house. I borrowed the library’s method for moving books. On the final day of the sale, patrons can fill a paper grocery sack with books for $10. It’s a perfect moving method, I found, because you can’t fill the bags so heavy that you can’t lift them. If you do, they rip. So I bagged my books and shuttled them between homes, sorting them into categories and, later, unpacking those categories into their own rooms.

The kitchen cabinets of my new house are now home to fiction and YA/children’s literature. Cookbooks decorate the top of my food cabinet. There’s a collection of religion books stacked artfully under an end table in my living room (topped, inexplicably, by a Beatles book). Art books keep magazines company atop the coffee table. I quickly filled the guest room bookcase with nonfiction. My bedroom, of course, is host to my favorite books: Alabama authors, writing books, my own journals and, on their own shelf, a collection of my favorite books and brand new (to me) books.

My roommate has been very patient as my books have taken over the house.

But I can recognize a problem when I see it, and I knew I didn’t need to go crazy (again) at this year’s book sale. I’ve barely made a dent in reading books from the previous two years! So I browsed the shelves more thoughtfully, selecting only books I couldn’t pass on, plus a few for friends and family. And I’ve already finished two of my purchases.

Maybe next year I’ll unleash the book buying beast again. In the meantime, on with the reading.

2010 Friends of Emmet O’Neal Library Book Sale purchases

  1. Four Spirits by Sena Jeter Naslund
  2. An Arsonist’s Guide to Writers’ Homes in New England by Brock Clarke
  3. Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout
  4. Essays of E.B. White
  5. Best of the Oxford American
  6. Evangeline and Selected Tales and Poems by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
  7. 1901 Alabama Constitution with Introductory Commentary

Top 10 albums of 2009

Originally posted on Birmingham Box Set

Every year I find myself going through phases with different albums. There are songs that show up on every playlist I make, others that bring me back to a specific moment. I think that’s one of the captivating powers of music, and for me, it’s also why it’s so fun to reflect on a year of music. I know there are dozens of albums I’ll fall in love with in 2010, some that I’ve already begun to review and can’t wait for you to hear. But these are 10 albums that will always bring me back to 2009.

  • Lisa Hannigan – Sea Sew
    During a ski trip last winter, I was immersed in this long-anticipated album from Damien Rice’s former side woman. Hannigan lived up to my high hopes with a beautifully crafted album that instantly takes me back to the ski slopes-appropriate for what sounds to me like a very wintry album.
  • Loney Dear – Dear John
    Dear John
    is a similarly seasonal-sounding album, and I’ve returned to it often as temperatures have dropped this month. Emil Svanagnen layers instruments and vocals so densely that I’m still discovering more about these songs, nearly a year later.
  • The Decemberists – The Hazards of Love
    Hands down, this is my favorite album of 2009. I received a review copy in mid-January, and was still so excited about this rock musical that I was chattering incessantly about it when friends finally got their hands on it after its March release. The already-large band combined with Shara Worden (My Brightest Diamond), Becky Stark (Lavender Diamond) and Jim James (My Morning Jacket)  to create an epic album and, with Worden and Stark, one of the best live shows I’ve seen.
  • Maria Taylor – Ladyluck
    I was late to the Maria Taylor game, as I didn’t discover her songwriting until her second solo release in 2007. But this Birmingham-bred musician is captivating with each release, and I often find “Time Lapse Lifeline” playing in my head. Incidentally, Taylor was also one of my more memorable interviews this year. I’ve got to like a musician who admits that getting nervous onstage helps keep her from crying during very personal songs.
  • Derek Webb – Stockholm Syndrome
    Derek Webb has been one of my favorites through the years, beginning when he was one of the principle songwriters of Caedmon’s Call and continuing as he’s moved through a number of genres. His latest, Stockholm Syndrome, is sonically a complete departure from his past work, but Webb’s lyrics continue to challenge me.
  • Iron and Wine – Around the Well
    Collections of rarities and unreleased tracks are generally not thrilling for anyone but the biggest fans of a band. But Iron and Wine is an exception, and this two-disc collection plays almost as well as a carefully thought-out album.
  • The Beatles – Stereo Box Set (remastered)
    It’s the Beatles and it was worth every penny. Do I really have to expand on that?
  • The Avett Brothers – I and Love and You
    The Avett Brothers have generated a well-deserved buzz over the years, and it reached a crescendo with their major-label debut this fall. I and Love and You is a beautiful collection of songs, combining the band’s raw energy and musicality. Their live show is also great, as anyone who caught their set at Sloss Furnaces would attest.
  • The Duke and the King – Nothing Gold Can Stay
    Although the songs were largely born of a difficult time in band member Simone Felice’s life, on this album pain is tinged with hope.
  • Fink – Sort of Revolution
    I listen to a lot of different types of music-not everything, to be sure, but a variety-but mellow folk music tends to be what I listen to the most. Fink made an impression on me by combining some of those sounds with a groovy, lounge vibe. (Though I’m not including him on this list, Robert Glasper was also a contender for the same reason.)

Other contenders: Great Lake Swimmers, Sara Watkins, Robert Glasper, A Fine Frenzy, Dave Rawlings Machine.

Earlier this month, I surveyed my Twitter followers for their favorite albums of the year and received some great recommendations:

bhamboxset: Working on my top albums of 2009 post and would love to include reader picks. What’s your favorite? 4:05 PM Dec 11th from TweetDeck

mattplanet:@bhamboxset tough one…Kings of Leon would have to be up there…I’ll get back to you. 4:07 PM Dec 11th from TweetDeck in reply to bhamboxset

coflegel:@bhamboxset vulture whale, reigning sound, bondy, eels, deep dark woods, spiral stairs 4:27 PM Dec 11th from web in reply to bhamboxset

wchandlerparker:@bhamboxset fun., Passion Pit, The Damnwells, Sarah Siskind, Derek Webb, Imogen Heap, Manchester Orchestra were some of my faves… 4:44 PM Dec 11th from Echofon in reply to bhamboxset

Julie100178:@bhamboxset I like Brandi Carlisle’s Give Up the Ghost. 4:54 PM Dec 11th from TweetDeck in reply to bhamboxset

clayconner:@bhamboxset fav 2009 album: Bondy’s “When the Devil’s Loose” 8:44 PM Dec 11th from Tweetie in reply to bhamboxset

jamieparris:@bhamboxset The Low Anthem’s Oh My God Charlie Darwin and Andrew Bird’s Noble Beast 9:59 PM Dec 11th from TweetDeck

spitballarmy:@bhamboxset Farrar/Gibbard’s “One Fast Move…;” Dawn Landes’ “Sweetheart Rodeo;” Damnwells’ “One Last Century;” GLSwimmers’ “Lost Channels” 8:51 AM Dec 12th from TweetDeck in reply to bhamboxset

kristenmstewart:@bhamboxset Noble Beast, I & Love & You, Veckatimest, One Last Century, When the Devil’s Loose, No Line on the Horizon… 1:48 PM Dec 12th from Tweetie in reply to bhamboxset

And we’ll remember this when we are old and ancient

This is a concert experience so excellent it bears repeating.

I always tell people that the Ryman Auditorium is such a great concert venue, I could sing on stage and people would still applaud. There’s not a bad seat in that room, and there’s a certain magic to it. I’m not sure if that’s more because of history or acoustics. Either way, it’s a wonderful place to see a concert.

So I was thrilled months ago when it was announced that the Decemberists would be playing the Ryman in September. I’ve desperately wanted to see them on their current tour, during which they’re playing The Hazards of Love in its entirety, but their I had already been told a Birmingham stop was unlikely this time. I bought tickets immediately, so anxious to make plans that I didn’t even check my seats. It’s the Ryman. How could I go wrong?

An hour later I got curious and pulled up my confirmation email. Front row. Center.

Before the concert began, my friend Monica and I sat in our oh-so-close seats and discussed our expectations for the evening. We admitted we set the bar high: If this wasn’t the best show we attended this year, we would be disappointed. (And we both attend a lot of concerts.) But here was the thing. We were certain we wouldn’t be let down. The Hazards of Love is such an epic album that we knew the night would be memorable.

The Decemberists are apparently a brilliant live band (this was my first time to see them, but I’ve since heard that from multiple people). My heart was racing as they came on stage, and every moment of The Hazards of Love set was just right. When Shara Worden came to the front for her first solo, she instantly lifted the energy of the very excited but very polite crowd. (My mantra is now, “Shara Worden is the very definition of bad ass.”) “The Rake’s Song” was one of the evening’s highlights. I’d been anxious to see the majority of the band behind drums, and it was incredible. I thought the guys in the folding chairs set up before the front rows of pews were going to lose it.

The band took an intermission after The Hazards of Love before a second “greatest hits” set. I turned to Monica and said, “The only way this could get better would be if we were in the center of all the music.”

I’m not as familiar with the Decemberists’ back catalog, but I thoroughly enjoyed the second set. They finally got us on our feet with some gentle admonishing; I think everyone remained seated during the bulk of  The Hazards of Love simply out of consideration for the rest of the audience. But now we were on our feet, singing along and cheering as Colin Meloy bantered with us.

I’m not a fan of standing ovations, and frequently plop back in my seat if I don’t think the performance merited one. This time, I was on my feet until the band returned for the encore. The final song of the evening was “Sons and Daughters,” and at the conclusion of the song Meloy prepared to lead us in a sing along. But before we could join in chorus on the song’s final line, he stepped to the front of the stage and said something to the effect of, “You guys. Get up here.”

I looked at Monica, wide-eyed, and took off. About 100 audience members clamored onto the stage. I looked up into the balcony of the Ryman as we sang, “Hear all the bombs fade away.” Sure enough, I was singing and they were still cheering.

And then, everyone on stage spontaneously began jumping up and down. It was such a communal moment; no one started it, but I don’t know that you could have remained planted on the ground unless you had a very large instrument holding you there.

At last, I was inside the music.

It’s not as if it’s a matter of will

The plan was simple. One year, no book buying (save for a three book exception, meant to stave off the seductive appeal of the forbidden). After filling my backseat with purchases from one book sale, I thought I needed a break from book buying. Otherwise I may never get caught up on my book reading.

That worked well for a time. I bought my first book at Square Books in Oxford, Miss., a place that begged for just such an exception. The Paris Review Interviews Vol. 1 is the perfect souvenir for this literary town. Weeks later, exception two came into play: The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway, on sale at Seattle’s Elliot Bay Books.

Then there was last night. Yes, last night brought book three. And four. And five. All the way up to 12. And I don’t feel a bit bad about it.

Technically, I fell off this particular wagon months back. I spotted three hardback copies of John Green’s Looking for Alaska on a sale table, and I couldn’t leave them lying there. I purchased all three, confident that I could find them homes. (I already owned two copies of the book, myself.)

But that didn’t count, not really. The books weren’t for me, after all. Neither was the hardback copy of Corduroy, purchased for a friend’s daughter’s birthday last month. By those rules, one of the books I bought last night doesn’t count either. When I saw a $3 hardback copy of a Charles Schulz biography, I knew my 16-year-old brother had to have it.

So then I’m only at 11 books for the year. Is that better?

This is what happened: It’s been a busy summer, one full of change. I haven’t been reading much as a result (a very strange circumstance, indeed). When a friend emailed yesterday, asking if I wanted to go to another library book sale, I said yes. I was ready for a little rule-breaking. (The fact that this counts as rebellion in my world is likely indicative of how big a nerd I am.)

We met at her house for a glass and a half of wine then headed out, hoping for a couple of good buys. Though I exhibited a fair amount of discretion, I still took home 10 books totaling $15. I broke the rules, and my only regret is not knowing which book to read first.

  1. Downtown Owl by Chuck Klosterman (The only Klosterman I didn’t own.)
  2. The Girls’ Guide to Hunting and Fishing by Melissa Bank (Often referenced as the original chick lit, and known for its author’s huge advance. I’m curious.)
  3. A Walk in the Woods by Bill Bryson
  4. The Reason for God by Timothy Keller
  5. My Losing Season by Pat Conroy
  6. Proof by David Auburn
  7. The Little, Brown Handbook (Buying a 1986 handbook from a publisher I admire surely marks me as a full-fledged word nerd. Even more so if I read it. But it seems like a handy reference, doesn’t it?)
  8. That’s What I Like (About the South) Edited by George Garrett and Paul Ruffin
  9. Schulz and Peanuts by David Michalies
  10. Southern Living 1981 Annual Recipes (My mother bought me a copy of this book in 1981, the year I was born. I lost my original copy in the midst of too many moves and have been hunting another since. The discovery was made even better when I realized the book was only $1!)

Hey look, I’m not weighed down

There are a lot of ways I know I’m busy. It’s the way I tend to live my life (although I haven’t quite figured out why–perhaps it’s the Type A thing). My birthday card from my grandparents was even titled “Ode to a Busy Person.”

And at present, the most glaring example of my busy-ness is the long list of unplayed podcasts in my iTunes. Silly, isn’t it? But I’ve barely listened to a one of them this month.

I queud up the most recent episode of The Splendid Table on the drive home Friday night, and was quickly reminded of how much I love that show and public radio in general. Here’s hoping I can slow it down for the rest of the summer–or at the very least, fit podcasts into my drive time.

American Public Media’s The Splendid Table (3)

B&N Meet the Writers Series (2)
Kathryn Stockett, author of The Help
Alice Hoffman, author of The Story Sisters

Book Lust with Nancy Pearl (1)
Featuring Susan Wiggs

New York Times Book Review (2)

Little, Brown and Company (1)
Luis Alberto Urrea, author of The Devil’s Highway

NPR All Songs Considered (4)
The Best Music of 2009 (so far)
Discoveries from the Pitchfork Music Festival
Monsters of Folk
Merge Records Turns 20

NPR Books Podcast (3)

NPR Live Concerts from the All Songs Considered Podcast (5)
Dave Douglas Brass Ecstasy Tiny Desk Concert
Bill Callahan Tiny Desk Concert
Sonic Youth
Maria Taylor Tiny Desk Concert
The Avett Brothers Tiny Desk Concert

NPR This I Believe (2)
Returning to What’s Natural
The Questions We Must Ask

NPR Wait, Wait Don’t Tell Me (3)

Paste Culture Club (2)
Including the Harry Potter podcast!

Some New Trend (2)

This I Believe (3)
Colleen Shaddox
Jackie Robinson
Kay Redfield Jamison

(The other thing this proves? I’m a big book and NPR nerd.)

Let’s pack our bags, get out of this town

May has been one of those particularly busy months, the kind when you realize it’s the 18th of the month and wonder if you remembered to pay rent. (I did.) It really started back in April, with back-to-back three concert weeks, birthday celebrations, six of eight weekends out of town (that stretches till June!), meals out and more. I can’t much complain, mind you; my trips have taken me from Seattle to St. Augustine, for work and for play. (I’m fortunate enough to frequently combine the two.)

But of course, I’ve found myself spread a bit thin. I’m tired, and this round of mayhem won’t end for at least three more weeks. Last Monday encapsulated that exhaustion. I stepped off the plane from Seattle around 4 p.m. and arrived home by 4:30. Four days of constant walking and experiencing rendered me mute on the couch for a few hours, but by 7 I was up and on my way to trivia before catching the tail end of a friend’s birthday dinner. Come Tuesday, I was pretty tired.

I’m trying to find a balance here, something I suppose I’ll be striving for all my life. There’s work, there’s friendship, there’s pursuing new challenges, and somewhere in this mix I hope there’s time for me. Just me. I need that (quite a lot of it actually) to succeed at anything else.

I claimed yesterday for myself. I returned home from another weekend trip and quickly busied myself with cleaning and cooking. But after a few hours I gave in and did what I really wanted to do: hopped on my bike in the rain. I met up with a friend on the trail, then headed to the grocery store (back to the practical) before visiting another friend for coffee. The alone time on my bike followed by one-on-one conversations? Both essential parts of a good day, I think. I then returned home, skipped church (something I rarely do!) and cooked a fairly balanced dinner for myself. I completed a writing assignment, took a bubble bath and read, for pleasure, before bed. Save for skipping out on church, it was nearly as balanced a day as I can imagine. 

Getting up at 4:30 a.m. probably helped.

Where do they all belong?

Since I brought her home two weeks ago, my bike Eleanor Rigby and I have stuck to riding the neighborhood streets. There’s a quick route up one street and down the other, totaling a mile per lap. I’ve quickly learned that everything in Birmingham really is a hill. My neighborhood run is convenient, but it’s almost entirely up hill one way and coasting down the other.

It’s a nice way to fit in a 20 minute ride after work. But even with the gratification of flying downhill, the monotony has already set in. So today I took Eleanor on her first trip out of the ‘hood.

I drove to a nearby park, unloaded E.R. and replaced her front tire, then took to the trail. And quickly turned back around because I realized I was coming up on a foot traffic only bridge; my only option was to bike on the street until it reconvened with the trail. From then on, I was immersed in the experience. Even riding with traffic on the way back didn’t bother me.

I didn’t ride any farther than I normally do. My route totalled about three miles. But I rode for almost twice as long as usual, and was pedaling nearly the whole time. I’ve been back at my apartment for several hours now, but I’m still daydreaming about that quick little trail. I can’t wait for a weekend when I can stay out longer and explore more trails.

Let’s go ride a bike

Sometimes I joke that life would be easier if I weren’t passionate about so many things. And I’m not going to say I’m passionate about cycling (it’s been a day!), but that borderline obsessive personality comes out whenever I get interested in something.

On the evening of my first day as a bike owner, I parked it in front of my computer and googled Nishiki and Nishiki Pueblo. It seems that people have a strong allegiance to their Nishikis, mourning the fact that they sold them, even well after they’ve moved on to fancier bicycles.

I’d say I did OK. (Thanks, again, Elisa!)

But I also panic any time I drop a bit of money on something. My bike was crazy inexpensive, and the helmet wasn’t much more. Still, before bed last night I was worrying about whether I’d made a wise decision, whether I would ride my bike enough to justify the purchase, whether I’m going to get into a terrible biking accident tomorrow.

This morning I woke up and pouted because it was raining. I wanted to ride my bike today! In other words, the panic had passed.

I only got to ride for five or 10 minutes today, in the alley behind Elisa’s apartment when I went over to pick up Eleanor. I thought about riding from her place to church (less than a mile), but it was supposed to resume raining around the time the service ended. It didn’t happen, so I drove for no reason.

Still, I’m excited. I have a bike in my car (need to change that!), and I’m contemplating where to ride after work tomorrow. I also realized that if I ride semi-consistently for two months, I’ll have gotten my money’s worth. (I spent the equivalent of two months at a gym on my bike and helmet.) And already, another friend has asked Elisa to keep an eye out for a bike for her. Add another one to the list, Bike Mom!

ETA: Introducing Eleanor Rigby

Eleanor Rigby

Waits at the window, wearing the face that she keeps in a jar by the door, who is it for?

When Elisa and I became friends, she was getting more involved in living a local lifestyle. We joined a community supported agriculture group together, reveling in the glory of fresh, local produce each week. She planted a garden outside her apartment’s back door. And she bought a bike, a beautiful cruiser she named Kevin Bacon.

These were things she’d been interested in for some time, but her involvement quickly took off. In particular, that was true for her cycling. Before long, Elisa began riding her bike everywhere and upgraded to a commuter bike, a friendly, sleek guy she named Mick Jagger. Recently she and some friends launched a bicycle co-op. And after months of listening to her talk about the joys of bike riding, I made a deal with her: Find me a cheap bike that fits me, and I’ll try riding.

So she did. And today, I became a bike owner.

My bike, Eleanor Rigby, is a blue Nishiki Pueblo, a hybrid that needed just a little love. Elisa and a friend tuned her up, but the back wheel needed a little more work than Elisa could provide. So this morning I picked her and Eleanor’s back wheel up and we drove to the local bike shop.

I left my apartment brimming with excitement and anticipation. I’m a very risk-averse person; sometimes I get nervous driving the same route I take every day. But I want my recreational biking to be more than riding around my (very small) neighborhood five times a day. I hope to load Eleanor into my car and take her downtown on weekends, when the streets aren’t filled with traffic and when I’m likely to waste a lot of gas just running around.

While Elisa spoke to the bike mechanics, I got fitted for a helmet. (Helmet hair be darned! I technically purchased my helmet before my bike. It’s that important!) And after we returned to her apartment and replaced Eleanor’s wheel, I was ready for my first ride as an adult bike owner.

Elisa kindly offered to join me on the one mile trip from her apartment to the birthday party I was attending, and her presence really did help me feel more comfortable with riding down a semi-busy street. Even so, it was an easy ride, mostly downhill and flat, with only a block uphill. And the rewards were sweet: Two friends and their children were climbing out of their car when I pedaled up. I was the talk of the party (OK, save for the precious 1-year-old whose birthday we were celebrating!), and I felt pretty darn great. Intrinsic motivation is great, but a little outside motivation helps too.

After the party came the ride I was nervous about. I was meeting friends to play at the science museum downtown, and had decided to ride the two miles to my coffee shop. Although the museum is only five blocks farther, I knew I would feel comfortable leaving my bike locked to a meter outside the shop. And frankly, I always want coffee.

I set out from my friends’ house with warnings to be careful and to call them if I needed any help. A recent doctor’s visit confirmed that I’m healthy, but as I pedaled through the streets of downtown I was quickly reminded that healthy and in shape are two very different things. Even riding on the flat roads wore me out. I had to stop twice and quickly finished the tiny bottle of water I brought with me.

But I felt so accomplished as I pedaled over the bridge (a hill!) and crossed from Southside to downtown. I spotted a girl in a pink shirt pedaling toward me and knew it was Elisa. She joined me for the final three blocks to the coffee shop, and I’ll admit, I didn’t feel quite so awesome as we pulled up. I was sweaty, my dress was sticking to me and that two mile ride had kicked my butt. My best guy friend walked up, laughing at me (I’d already warned him that this was how I would arrive), and after locking my bike I went inside and threw myself across the counter. “Water!” I said, panting. “I need water!”

Another friend who rides had cautioned me to take it slow as I began riding. Only ride when you want to, he said, and don’t let anyone push you into doing more than you’re ready for. Bike nerds can be pretty hardcore, and he didn’t want me to become disenchanted before I really got going. So after playing at the museum, I decided to lift my bike into the back of a friend’s truck and get a ride back to my car. Five and a half miles on my first day would have sounded more impressive (OK, even if it’s not very far on wheels!), but loving my bike tomorrow is more important.

As he lifted my bike into his truck bed, my friend identified the source of my troubles. My back tire was scraping the bar that held it in place. No wonder those two miles were so tortuous! “Do I get superhero points for riding with it like that?” I asked him. He said maybe not. But I am even more motivated to keep going, and that’s enough for today.

Oh, and the other lesson from my first day as a bike owner? Pigtails are definitely the way to rock a lilac and white helmet. If you pass me on the street, be kind. I’m new at this.

Made with love

Sometimes an idea is worth copying. This is me, jumping on the bandwagon.

The first five people to respond to this post will get something made by me. This offer does have some restrictions so please read carefully:

  •  I make no guarantees that you will like what I make.
  • What I create will be just for YOU.
  • It will be done this year (2009).
  • It will be something made my own two hands.
  • It might be a mix CD, a knitted scarf, stack of cards, a poem, baked goods, an original photograph … the possibilites are infinite.

In return, all you need to do is post this on your blog or facebook and make five things for five other people.